Initially I was disinclined to post again on the topic of Christmas cards as I wrote this story back in 2011. Then I started thinking about the background of card-sending and the potential importance to family history.
I’d guess that in most families there’s at least one person who writes to every member of the family as well as friends, each and every year. In my family that would have been my Aunty Mary who faithfully sent cards despite the ups and downs of her own, or the recipients’, lives that year. Certainly she was a family lifeline through some difficult years for me.
Another distant, fourth, cousin also sends out masses of cards, keeping up the links with extended families both in Australia and overseas. This is the cousin who broke open my links back to County Clare with my 2xgreat grandmother Mary O’Brien. Nora’s family were master achievers of staying in touch with family and had all the oral history as well as relatively current contacts.
Nora is also the one who holds a vast repository of family and friend photos, just like the one I posted recently for Remembrance Day. This led, as chains of thoughts do, to the reflection that in days past families, and friends, would sometimes (often?) send family photos together with their Christmas cards. So, have you thought about who might have your family’s photos as a result of Christmas-card exchanges?
When my Aunty Mary died I helped to clear out her house, and to salvage any genealogy-precious items like photos and certificates etc. Among her things was her own address book and a couple of my grandmother’s. These would have been their source when they started sending out their cards each year, just as mine is my memory-check. If you’ve been lucky enough to inherit a relative’s address book have you tried to identify who each person is/was? And maybe think about making contact to see if they have any family photos?
Christmas memories may be about our own and our family’s lives but they can also open the gate to further family history research. One idea I’ve taken away from reading various posts is that I want to write a Christmas card with a special message to each of my grandchildren, each year. I still have a couple of cards my own grandmother gave me, and it’s precious to have her greetings handwritten in my card. She had a quirky way of signing on cards – she always wrote across the corner, diagonally, on the inside flap. Perhaps because in those days cards were often used for craft.
Would you like to read my 2011 post on Christmas cards?
This post is part of the Advent Calendar of Christmas Memories (ACCM) which allows you to share your family’s holiday history twenty-four different ways during December! Learn more at http://adventcalendar.geneabloggers.com.
4 thoughts on “Advent Calendar: Day 2 – Christmas Cards”
I have some photographs that were included in my maternal grandparents cards. Even though they are signed I only know that they were friends of my grandparents. I have 2 cousins that always send a card and a gift at Christmas. I have gotten so bad, I haven’t even sent cards the last few years. I am going to do better this year.
I imagine that if you put your mind to it you could track down those friends. Perhaps this prompt will inspire us all to do better for Christmas 2013.
I can probably find them in the census. My grandparents would be 0ver 120 if they were alive so I don’t think any of the friends would be found alive. But it would be interesting to find out more about them. Glad you mentioned that.
I was initially surprised when you said “over 120 years” then I realised mine would be 130+. It shows how memory can carry across long periods of time doesn’t it. I wonder if the other family/families have anything about yours or if it’s long been disposed of. Some days you have to wish for the hoarders amongst us Kristin.